Revolving Door Relationships

Why is it fine for man to break up with one woman to start seeing another only to come back to the first to have sex then when she ask if they are getting & or are back together he tells her he don’t know what to do that he has feeling for both but don’t know who to choose now if a woman did that she would be a whore.

By Confused

Dear Confused,
It sounds like there is a need for two answers. First, the man needs to do some soul searching. He obviously don't know what he wants and therefore probably shouldn't be having sex with ANYONE. If he is in a relationship and isn't telling the person, he is CHEATING. Second, the lady who allows such action needs to be asking herself why she allows it. YES I understand a human's sexual/emotional needs, but there is a little thing called self respect that should be waving a red flag. After all this woman deserves to be loved not used... And if he is cheating on one, he will probably do the same to the other.

Dating a longtime Friend?

Q: Do you think asking a longtime friend out on a date is a good thing or just asking for trouble? ~Anonymous~ 
 

Dear Anonymous, Do u value the friendship....where do u see things months down the line? Listen to your heart.... Personally, I believe u need a perfect friendship for a successful relationship, but is it worth losing the friendship if it ends? My experience says no.

                                                                                                                     W/Love,
                                                                                                               Blazing Angel