Distance between friends

I have a couple friends that I was close to, and recently they seem to be distancing themselves. I don't know if I've done something wrong, or if its nothing to be concerned with?What should I do?  ~TG~

Dear TG,
Are you sure that your friends are pushing away or could it possibly be that they are enjoying their time together so much that they don't even know that you are feeling left out? Have you actively tried to gain their attention, or some how shown them that you miss your time together?

This might be a good 1st step. Maybe you should attempt to schedual a get-together. have lunch, go shopping, rent a movie, play cards. Anything is good and a few hours can change alot of hard feelings; esp if you are doing something productive.

Mrs Right

How long does it take to find the right woman (True Love) ~The seeker~

Dear Seeker,
Your Mrs. right could be someone you already know or she could be someone you have yet to meet. I think the important part is that a person stay open to any/all possibilities. Alot of possibilities are missed because people don't place them selves in situations to meet like minded people or they  fail to keep an open mind when they do.. Good luck :)

Revolving Door Relationships

Why is it fine for man to break up with one woman to start seeing another only to come back to the first to have sex then when she ask if they are getting & or are back together he tells her he don’t know what to do that he has feeling for both but don’t know who to choose now if a woman did that she would be a whore.

By Confused

Dear Confused,
It sounds like there is a need for two answers. First, the man needs to do some soul searching. He obviously don't know what he wants and therefore probably shouldn't be having sex with ANYONE. If he is in a relationship and isn't telling the person, he is CHEATING. Second, the lady who allows such action needs to be asking herself why she allows it. YES I understand a human's sexual/emotional needs, but there is a little thing called self respect that should be waving a red flag. After all this woman deserves to be loved not used... And if he is cheating on one, he will probably do the same to the other.

All Is Good~ By Lonely

Why is it alright for a man to completely ignore a woman that he has been dating & then call / text her out of the blue & think its all good.

By Lonely Text

Dear Lonely Text,
Is it possible that the male wasn't "ignoring" the lady at all. Maybe he was just busy taking care of other issues, forgot to call/text,  and she took it wrong? Sounds like maybe these two need to COMMUNICATE their needs.

Why do People Expect Valentines Day Gifts

Why do woman automatically think a man should get them something for Valentine’s Day When they have only been with a man for a short time. ~By Shoot Cupid

Dear "Shoot Cupid",
Face it, Valentines day was created manufactuers. Then society began training youth at young ages to show love by spending money on materialistic items. It is this type of training that causes people in general (not just women) to expect gifts (not just for V-day but christmas, easter, wedding annaversaries, etc)

Tired Of The same Question

Why is it that men always ask, what is the best way to turn a woman on when as with men not all are the same. ~Tired of the same question.

Dear Tired,
It seems that everyone is looking for the perfect answer to the same question. What do I need to do to turn on my mate? The fact is there is no right or wrong answer because everyone has different needs and desires. What works for one person, may run another person off. So, I suggest you tell people to ask the person who they are interested in, what turns him/her on. Remember Communication is the key to any/all healthy relationships :)

Pubic Hair?

Q: Not trying to be perverted but, is the new style for a female to be bushy, trimmed or bald? ~Anonymous~ 

A: I do not believe there is a right or wrong answer to this question, it all depends a person's personal preference. Everyone has their own "turn ons/offs".  ~Blazing Angel~

Dating a longtime Friend?

Q: Do you think asking a longtime friend out on a date is a good thing or just asking for trouble? ~Anonymous~ 
 

Dear Anonymous, Do u value the friendship....where do u see things months down the line? Listen to your heart.... Personally, I believe u need a perfect friendship for a successful relationship, but is it worth losing the friendship if it ends? My experience says no.

                                                                                                                     W/Love,
                                                                                                               Blazing Angel

Signifigant Other Doesn't Want To Text

Q: what would you think if your significant other told you not to text all the time cause he didn't want to run out of minutes? 

~MD~

Dear MD, 

Thanks for writing... 

My reaction would depend on a person's phone plan. For instance, lets say your friend has Straittalk unlimited talk, text, & data... he wouldn't have to worry about talk or text time. He would be able to use his phone as much as he wants. On the other hand if he has a phone plan with a minute or text limits, and you text too often... you could cause him to go over budget which might cause you to lose the ability to call or text when you need him.

Personally, I think you need to talk to your friend. Ask him about his phone plan. If he is on a limit, be more courteous. And while your at it.... ask yourself why you are worried about this... I mean... you seem a little insecure,  like you are worried about something else. If that's the case then you don't trust your friend, which means the issues are more serious than his phone plan. 

                                                                                           W/Love,

                                                                                      ~Blazing Angel~ 

 

What turns a woman on the most about a guy?

Q: What turns a woman on the most about a guy? Explain? 
                                                                     ~ Anonymous~ 

A: It's all about personal preference. One persons prince is another toad. I personally am attracted to long haired intellectual men who know how to give/and receive attention.... (its even better if they are old fashion gentlemen on the streets and dominate in the bedroom.)

 With Love 

~Blazing Angel~

can you tell from one kiss if you like someone or not?

Q: Do you think you can tell from one kiss if you like someone or not?  ~Anonymous ~

A: You can not tell intellectual or personality attraction by one kiss what a kiss does is add a physical component to an already formed attraction.... I think it definitely holds weight in the long term decision but its not the over all deal breaker.
                                                                                    W/Love,
                                                                              ~Blazing Angel~